In many ways Sheldon Cooper may have prepared us for Donald Trump, given us stamina to make it through the daily displays of Donald’s character eccentricities. Just think about Sheldon’s many quirks. He is set in his ways and is making obsessive compulsive disorder more mainstream. He is convinced of his own superiority to everyone around him, and arrogant with it. He is certain that he is a genius, the new Einstein, although he often makes simple mistakes in his research which prove to be fatal blows to his achieving the Nobel Prize he covets. He is very jealous when someone is more successful than him. He uses his “idiosyncratic” (spoiled) behavior to exert absolute authority over his little world. He manipulates everyone with his stubbornness and inflexibility. Sound familiar?
We can’t discuss this comparison of Sheldon and Donald without remembering some of Sheldon’s most overbearing behaviors, humorous in drama, but possibly not so much if Sheldon were a real person.
Sheldon’s First Time at the Cheese Cake Factory
The Roommate Agreement
The Relationship Agreement
Sheldon as a Mobile VR Presence Device
However, Sheldon has some vulnerabilities that make him occasionally human and endearing. Sheldon’s friends also do not take his terrorism too seriously. They defuse it with sarcasm, humor, and affection. Sheldon’s friends make up a second family for him. Because he went away to college at such a young age and his social skills were therefore neglected, Sheldon’s friends almost reparent him and it is not an easy task. Penny is especially good, as a non-genius, at forging a close and somewhat sweet relationship with Sheldon who can be robotic, imperious, and lacking in a social IQ to match his intellectual IQ.
Maybe that’s what Donald missed, why he never achieved an adult balance to tone down his authoritarian streak with empathy and compassion. He never found a group of friends who felt unintimidated by his egotism, narcissism, and his absolute belief in his own genius. He never had people who affectionately modified his selfish and misguided self-sufficiency, who mocked him and teased him and grounded him. Trump’s seemingly ebullient extroversion allows him to live in his own isolated space where he can only be reached by people who constantly admire him and say yes to all his “brilliant” ideas. It is doubtful that Donald could be reparented at this late date.
Lots of experiences have unintended consequences, so let’s not ruin our enjoyment of this very popular diversion because of the ways in which Sheldon’s oddball personal traits might be helping Donald seem more socially acceptable. Sheldon of course is not real, he only seems real because The Big Bang has such great writers and really creative dialogue. It is entirely possible that these TV nerds have much improved the currency value of actual nerds. Sadly, though, there is a lot more humor to be had from Sheldon’s peculiarities than we will ever see from Donald’s. We may enjoy watching Big Bang reruns for decades. I have a feeling though, that Donald’s reruns may be very unpopular and will have to eventually be remixed. Of course he is already trying to rewrite it all but I doubt his writing skills equal the skills of The Big Bang crew. I doubt it can ever be rewritten to seem like Presidential behavior.
Thanks to the fans who recorded these bits of The Big Bang Theory. You will see their names when you watch the videos.